You can search forever in a fearful, cowardly haze for “absolute” conclusions or you can realize grey area choices can (and must) be made for humans in a democratic country.
You can handle it. Listen to both sides, follow your heart, form a position based on both. Don’t sit these days out hiding. And the Ukraine bloody massacre is just one issue we must face. Be like a judge, the world is your courtroom.

Think of the world your kids will occupy.

Don’t comment negatively, think of solutions. The USA needs that right now.